audry921

It feels like a damned if I do, damned iif I dont. All of a sudden. Is he just looking for an excuse to leave, seeing / interested in someone else,just drunk/ stressed. .? . All or none of the above… E.A.D 6-28-73

Pixie Dust (pixiedust28)

Hi Audry, I’m online and available to take your call. I’d be happy to take an in depth look at this for you.

Pixie

IrinaSoulandStars (irinasoulandstars)

Hello, Audry! I really don’t see him knowing what he wants, he is going through a phase right now when commitment is not what he is interested in which is why he might give you mixed signals… but cards say you two can get out of this phase? Should we try a reading and see how? hugs and blessings! Irinasoulandstars

Gemini Moon Readings (gemini_moon)

Hi Audry. Sorry you are going through that. Based on his energy, he seems to be just as confused about you as you are about him.

Mondez Durden (mondezdurden)

Hello, Audry. I’m sorry you’re dealing with so much uncertainty. When someone’s behavior suddenly becomes difficult to understand, it’s very natural to start searching for an explanation: Is he looking for a way out? Is there someone else? Is he stressed or drinking? If you can figure out why he’s acting this way, perhaps you can figure out what you should do.

But I wonder if there’s another question worth your time thinking about.

Regardless of why he is behaving this way, how do you feel about being treated this way? What behavior is acceptable to you in a relationship, and what crosses that line? You don’t need to know the future or why he’s behaving this way to know how you feel about what has transpired.

Even if he came to you tomorrow with a perfectly reasonable explanation for everything, would knowing his reasoning change how you feel about what has happened? Would you feel comfortable trusting him and moving forward, or would something still feel unresolved for you?

Sometimes trying to solve the mystery of another person’s behavior can keep us from looking at what is happening to us in the meantime.

You might try imagining that nothing changes over the next few weeks or months. If you were still experiencing the same uncertainty, what would you want to do for yourself?

You may not be able to determine exactly why he is behaving this way, but you can decide what you are willing to live with. That may be where you have more power than it initially feels like.

monique.reign

Hi Audry,

The person you are asking about shows up as someone who may be kind of elusive, even when there is no doubts lingering around your relationship, its like he keeps some of his thoughts to himself. For whatever reason, he appears to feel like he stands alone in some of his toughest, battles. That being said, this person shows as very attached to you. So, if you would like a reading, please let me know. But Audrey, whether we chat or not, You are not damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You are holding things, which are not for you to hold. And I think you know that.

Lauren Divine (lauren_divine)

I agree with a lot of what’s been said here for the most part. However, I’m not feeling a third party but a lot of stress but it isn’t just the stress of daily things and things he has going on I do feel a lot of emotional issues with him and things he isn’t properly dealing with/unpacking. I do feel this person still has feelings for you, but having feelings and having consideration or not always the same thing.

If you’d like to look further into this and what ways to handle this and cope and further insight into what’s really going on in his mind I would be more than happy to read for you and am available