SS (sharks78)

I used to have a thing for this woman, but after some time of being in a lesbian group in my local area, I discovered that I am not a lesbian. I’m asexual and have no desire for a woman or man. I was with a woman in my 20’s, but have since come to terms that it was a phase. I also have no sexual desire for a man because they are pigs. I am sure many straight women feel the same way. This woman… we will call her A for short… what are her intentions? She had come after me strongly stroking my arm with her finger, holding my hands at some point of conversation, and let me know she was into me. Then I reciprocated with A letting her know I was interested. She seemed to panic and got scared telling me she is a straight woman. She kicked me out of a bar she bartends at and I stopped going there. She kicked me out because another worker who works there told her to do it. I have only been back once to the bar with my best friend and we stayed 5 minutes tops. Then I left and never been back since. I bought her real nice flowers (roses with Roger Lillie’s) and had them delivered to her work. I then called her work a few times. She was elated at first and then pushed me away. My last contact with her was April 2024. We exchanged some emails. She told me to stop contacting her at work and personally. I have respected her boundary. What does this woman want? What are her intentions with me? I want to completely ignore her if she contacts me.