cnadinec87

My sister struggled with addiction but was doing well until she slipped up.the day she passed she was withdrawing really bad and she had recently underwent radiation and chemotherapy for cancer. Combining addiction with being weak I could see why she would be in more pain than most.were 14 months apart.She was only 35. The past 5 days have been the worst most emotional experience I’ve ever gone through but I’ve been having weird moments where I’m totally calm… like a weird comforting feeling. We were best friends. Is it possible she has anything to do with calmness I’ve been feeling? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

log lady (logladytarot)

i am so very sorry for your loss – including everything endured leading up to it.

your closeness with your sister and the empathy you had for her, had you carrying that weight and pain of her struggles to a degree, and i do believe that calm is somewhat of the relief in knowing that it’s all behind you both, and doesn’t need carried anymore.

i do feel her soul is at peace, and that she is still with you. you will likely see more signs around you that validate her presence.

i hope you continue to take things a day at a time, processing your grief and embracing those pockets of calm and rest, as you move forward in honoring her and her memory.

sending you so much strength and big hugs xx

Womb Priestess (ioanatarot)

Hello. I am sorry for your loss. What I feel is she suffered a lot on Earth and now she is free, she is Home with ancestors that welcomed her with love.This calm feeling is a message that she is happy now, she is relieved from all the pain that she`d been through. You two cand still connect, just think at her and send her love. Blessings

Astro Alana (psychicalana)

Everyone handles and processes grief differently. I think it’s often a shock losing the ones we do love so much especially in a tragic way. best friends you still are and that lives within you and in spirit. I think when that bond lives on within you it’s very possible when her energy comes to visit it send you comfort as well. I see you are going to have ups and downs about this for some time and you have not really digested it yet. I am so sorry for your loss, and I wish you all the healing in the world. I am here if you want to touch base and do a reading.

Take care Alana

cnadinec87

Thank you all for your responses. You have no idea how much it means. My sister and I have always had a very strong sense of empathy. So many times I have forgiven people who didn’t deserve it. Felt sick for people I’ve never met when they’re going through something traumatic or having an overwhelmingly amount of joy or love when something monumental happens. She was the exact same way and now that she’s gone it’s so hard to explain but it feels like something has been ripped from inside of me, painfully … down to my very last cell. I have to feel that if her and I were the same in that way she must know how deeply rooted this pain feels for me. I know that pain is non existent for her but she has to know right? This is so much harder every day that goes by. I miss her so much but I do feel that this is going to be harder before I get better. I have not digested this even partially.

Pixie Dust (pixiedust28)

Hi C,

Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. Our connection to our loved ones is still present after they cross the veil, and there is no doubt that those moments of clarity and serenity are small reminders of the reality of energy exchange after the physical vessel has transformed.

The layers of this loss are many and life-changing. Any young life lost is a tragedy, but under these circumstances, there is no way to predict how you will feel from hour to hour, and that is all very much par for the course.

Digesting this is going to take time and space. The somatic experience of grief is profoundly different than the intellectual concept, and the embodiment of that energy will happen only with time.

I am sending you so much love and comfort at this time. It is few and far between that I get requests for mediumship readings on this platform, but it is what I am known for in my private work. I assure you that you will receive signs and synchronicities of her nearness as time passes.

Under extenuating circumstances, I provide mediumship sessions on a donation basis and would like to extend the invitation to you. It is my passion to hold space for authentic healing.

Brightest of blessings, Pixie

Gemini Moon (gemini_moon)

i’m very sorry for your loss.

i can’t say if she has anything to do with what you’re feeling or not – but i can say she’s with you still, just in a different way now. when people pass, they’ll show you signs that they are around. its up to you to know the signs. it could be a particular song, or a smell, or what have you. but you’ll know.

take care and my condolences to you.

Naviah Chevalier (neviah)

Hi Cnadinec87,

I’m so sorry to hear about your sister. Losing someone so close is incredibly painful, and it’s understandable to experience a whirlwind of emotions during this time. It’s quite common to feel moments of calm and comfort amidst the chaos, especially when you had such a strong bond with her.

Many people believe that when we lose loved ones, their energy can linger around us. It’s possible that those moments of calm you’re experiencing are her way of letting you know she’s with you. It could be her spirit offering you comfort and support as you navigate this difficult time.

Allow yourself to embrace those feelings of calmness and reflect on the good memories you shared. It might also help to talk about your memories of her or write down your thoughts and feelings. If you continue to seek guidance or support, consider connecting with a counselor or joining a support group for those who have experienced loss.

Take care of yourself, and know that your sister will always live on in your heart. If you’d like to share more or talk further, I’m here for you.