Starr34 (chernandez34)
on how to have a successful relationship
Psychic Medium Jamey (jamey)
The biggest tip is not emotionally attaching way to fast and not making someone earn the right to be in your life.
Everyone is always on their best behavior in the beginning, everyone wears a mask. The true personality usually shows up until about 3 months in, sometimes sooner. Emotionally attaching to who they are in the beginning and then spending the rest of the relationship trying to get them back to that person will set you up for failure every time.
Remember that we teach people how to treat us. Setting up healthy boundaries in the beginning is really important. Most fear setting healthy boundaries out of the fear that it will push someone away. When the reality of it is, if they run away because you set a boundary, they will run away eventually anyway. Therefor finding out sooner if they are someone that will stick around.
Deal with any fears of ending up alone before entering a relationship. People will use those fears against you as a way to not have to deal with their own. Keeping you off balance during the relationship and you losing sight of who you really are.
Learning what emotional/mental abuse looks like and what the early signs are. A good chunk of clients on here are holding onto abusive relationships and they don’t even know that they were abused.
Falling into the trap of “not wanting to be a ‘needy’ girlfriend”. This is a myth perpetuated by men that don’t to take emotional responsibility for their actions and how it effects others. You want a man that can handle you needs. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life wondering why your needs aren’t being met. Learn to speak your needs early on and don’t be afraid to use your voice.
You have to lay a healthy foundation in the beginning so that when things happen later on you are both emotionally in a better position to work through things together.
shh (shh)
You don’t neccessarily end up with: 1) the first person you are in love with 2) the one you love 3) the one who lives you You end up with someone with whom the relationship is based on something ‘mutual.’ People are looking for different things; it’s not always about love.
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Starr34 (chernandez34)
wow Jamey thank you soooooo much everything you said makes a lot of sense! My biggest mistake Is getting emotionally attached to how they treat me at the beginning and then I get dissapointed when the real them starts showing! Shh, you are also correct my ex left me for someone that loves to drink and party just like him, I was too boring for him :(
Psychic Medium Jamey (jamey)
You are so welcome Starr. Remember, if you want better, you have to quit settling for less!
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Psychic Medium Jamey (jamey)
Brokenandblue, I am sorry I am not on PO and don’t do email readings. I find my connection to your guides is best when I am communicating directly with you.
Message me and maybe we can work something out.
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