toree (toreesky)
So my mother took a hiatus from New York and from the moment she arrived, she has been telling me what to do on EVERYTHING!! she has to,d me what to do with my health, my education, love life, always asking me why, who what, where etc. she pit nicks at every single thing and I swear she might have OCD issues. No matter what I say, it literally just goes over her head and it gets to the point where I get frustrated and want her to leave me alone. Then she wanna argue like we are five years olds fighting over a toy.
What can I do to alleviate this or what insight can someone give me into how this relationship can be alleviated? I will pay whatever price.
anastayshia (anastayshia)
hi just reading your post and u know that’s what parents do she is just worried about you, she does not not mean any harm and u know what u wouid miss her if she wouid stop, so I’m on line if u wanna talk
Guided by the Spirits Themself (psychicbobbiefaith)
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Jess Wynn (blackwidow_81)
I feel u to sum degree. My mother tries to give me advice, which is cool but at times she can be very judgemental and im not wit that. Im grown and I love n respect her but this is my life. I have to live it as I see fit. Feel me?
Ms. Anntonette (ms.anntonette)
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Sacred Star (sacredstar)
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marva.lee (sunn10020)
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Life Embers (life_embers)
Hey Toree,
I completely understand! Moms and parents in general can sometimes be the WORST! The judgments, the demands, the “suggestions” that are actually not really an option. I totally get it!
Hit me up and lets chat it out and figure out the best course of action for you to not only get along with your mother, but for you to be able to get your point across to her the things that you want in your life, and make her understand them in a respectful way.
If I am not online feel free to send a message. I will get back with you ASAP.
Just remember to breathe and stay calm.
<3-Love and Light-<3 Life_Embers
Neil Blacknwhite (blacknwhite)
Hi Toree, I invite you to my chat for a solution to this, its not overnight, but you will find the tools you need to work with it yourself!
Best Wishes
Maharaani (raani)
Hi!
Mother and Daughter relationships can be very hard especially if the mother does not want too relinqish control and accept that the daughter has grown into her own woman. Your mother cares for you very deeply and when you argue you are both missing each others frustrations. Your mother thinks your ungrateful as she is just showing you she cares and you think your mother is nit picking at you. What needs to happen here is communication needs to be opened calmly and clearly. Take a few days to think about the changes you want from your mother and also what changes you can do for your mother. Once you have decided on these communicate them with her and remain calm it may be easier to write it in a letter to her as it gives her time to digest and process what you say without giving an immediate response. What is clear here is that there is a deep love between you both and you can overcome this x
Hey:) (cyndia)
Mom will always look at us as their baby. Within their heart, they truly want the best for us and sometimes they don’t know how to express it correctly so it came across as controlling.
Hey:) (cyndia)
And not listening. Sometimes it’s best to just sit down and talk to her calmly. Or when she’s away, text her…or voice text her
Hey:) (cyndia)
About what you need and that you also respect her wishes
toree (toreesky)
Thank you to everyone who responded. Yes she does think I’m ungrateful and I’m thinking of definitely writing a letter to her to tell her off but that’s once I have officially gotten my things to move out. There is no love because she doesn’t know what love is. Thank you to the two of you below who aren’t psychics. It’s good to know I’m not alone in this tirade.
☪Love Specialist☪ (psychicbridgette)
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