Antara Tarocchi (antaratarocchi)

Recognizing if a man genuinely desires you emotionally and sexually involves tuning into both verbal and nonverbal cues but more importantly, it’s about how consistently and respectfully he expresses that desire. Here are some signs to pay attention to…. :)

1) His Eyes Say a Lot

The Eyes are a gateway to the soul, you can read what a man thinks and feels through the eyes, pay attention here. Gentle puppy dog eyes are telling of a emotional connection. Looking at your body, curves, and things along those lines are an expression of the sexual side, the eyes are most telling. Unrestrained eye contact is a sign of both emotional and sexual attraction.

2) Physical Closeness and Touch He leans in when you talk, finds reasons to touch you gently, wants to engage in sexual relations and does so in a romantic way. Wants to be physically intimate while not having sexual relations.

3) Flirtatious and Sensual Language Verbal Affirmation of the interest and desire, he will not just make sexual remarks, but remarks about your beauty, about how he desires you, he will make you feel uplifted and seen on a sexual and personal level.

4) Wants to Quality Time If he is feeling both a Romantic and Sexual connection he will want to spend time, he will remember those details, he will remember your sexual fantasies and desires and work hard to please you emotionally and sexually.

5) Emotional and Physical Tension You will feel a magnetic impulse to connect, he will feel it for you and you will feel it for him, the magnetic connection is a type of feeling that goes beyond space and time. If its there its a sign something powerful is in the works.

BUT WITH THAT SAID…......

There are some things that can actually hold a man back from expressing his interest in a woman. One of the major issues I see is timing, a man wants to act at the right time, most men have gone through experiences of deep rejection with women, they want to try to make the move when they feel like they are ready, but ALSO when the woman feels ready. This is usually one of the major things that holds a man back. Another thing is respect for a womens boundaries, most guys have at some point were made to feel like their interest in a woman was unwarranted, and were shamed for it, this fear holds men back, they dont want to cross a womans boundaries in a negative way. So they stay silent about things out of fear of triggering or upsetting a woman if they take action. I would say both of these fears all come down to one major fear, the fear of rejection, which can be crippling for the ego that some men have. So although its often easy to tell if a man is into you, there are certainly cases where it can be much harder to tell if a man is actually interested and wanting to connect more.

IF you have someone in your life that you want to look into, feel free to come get a reading and we can see what’s going on behind the scenes!