Violetann Psychic Tarot (violetanntarot)

I hope everyone reading this is doing okay. Today, I want to offer some insight especially for those of you left in limbo, waiting on someone who keeps saying, “I just don’t know what I want right now.”

Let’s explore what’s really behind that statement.

Why People Say They Don’t Know What They Want They do know—just not with you. It’s hard to hear, but often when someone says this, they’ve already made a decision. They’re just afraid to say it out loud. Rather than being honest, they keep you around “just in case” while avoiding the discomfort of clarity.

They’re emotionally unavailable. They might crave connection, but when things get real, fear kicks in. Commitment feels like suffocation to them, not safety. They’ll stay close enough to feel desired, but distant enough to avoid vulnerability.

They want the benefits of a relationship, without the responsibility. This is the classic situationship energy. They want your time, your energy, your intimacy but not the title, not the accountability, not the emotional labor.

They are going through internal conflict. Sometimes, people truly are confused. But unless they are actively working on themselves (therapy, healing, self-awareness), they are unlikely to find clarity anytime soon and meanwhile, you’re stuck in their storm.

Let This Sink In When someone says they’re confused, step back and ask yourself: Why am I okay with unclear energy? You deserve someone who is certain about you. Not someone who’s tossing your heart between “maybe” and “not now.”

Emotionally Healthy People… Say what they mean. Mean what they say. If they’re unsure, they say so—with compassion, not manipulation. If they’re done, they respect you enough to say goodbye.

Anything less than that? That’s not love. That’s avoidance dressed up as “honesty”

PSYCHIC INSIGHT SESSIONS Readings for clarity. For truth. For peace.

If you’re tired of second-guessing what someone’s silence, mixed signals, or confusion really mean I can help you find the answers through a psychic tarot reading. Book a Psychic session with me, and let’s uncover what’s hidden beneath the surface.

Love. Healing. Forward movement. Violetann Psychic Intuitive & Tarot Guide