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Moving from Casual to Something More: Speaking Your Truth
Sometimes, what starts as a casual relationship turns into something deeper, leaving you wanting more—more connection, more commitment, more of what truly feels right. If you’re feeling this way, it’s important to honor your emotions and speak your truth.
Getting Real with Yourself
Before anything else, take a moment to check in with yourself. What do you really want? Are your feelings for this person based on a genuine emotional connection, or is it more about not wanting to let them go? Being honest with yourself will give you clarity and confidence when you talk to them.
Finding the Right Words
If you’ve decided you want a deeper relationship, holding back out of fear won’t change things—it’ll only keep you stuck in a situation that doesn’t fully meet your needs. When the time feels right, be open with them. You could say something like:
“I’ve been thinking a lot about our connection, and I realize I want more than just something casual. I need to share this with you because it matters to me. Where do you stand?”
Pay Attention to Their Response
How they respond will tell you a lot—not just through their words, but through their actions. If they’re open to deepening the relationship, that’s a great sign. But if they hesitate or make it clear they want to keep things casual, you’ll have to decide whether staying in this situation is good for you.
Trusting Yourself and the Process
No matter their answer, expressing your feelings is a step toward self-respect. If they don’t want the same things as you, holding onto a relationship that doesn’t meet your emotional needs won’t change that—it’ll only keep you from finding the kind of love you truly deserve.
Final Thoughts
Being honest about your feelings takes courage, but it’s the only way to move forward in a way that honors you. Whether this person reciprocates or not, speaking up will bring you clarity, strength, and a sense of freedom. Love is meant to be fulfilling, and the first step toward that is making sure you’re in a relationship that feels right for you.
Trust yourself. You know what you need, and you deserve to have it.
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I am Ananda, a full time professional Psychic. I am here on Bitwine every weekday morning (very early USA time).