M C M (want2bloved)

Only free replies please> I have recently suspected my husband (of 15,5 yrs) is lying to me about his activities on the internet, and caught him by spying. He seems to prefer porn and younger girls, and even comes up with excuses not to have sex.(e.g age & medication)He is 50 & I’m 35. He never tells me he loves me and hardly ever, since we got married, showed affection. I confronted him 2 days ago, now we are not talking. I don’t think he ever loved me?? He lies so well- is/was there someone else in our relationship?? Is my marriage over???

over 13 years ago

Craig Eugene (craigeugene)

I feel you already know the answers to your questions. Marriage is over if you say it is, I do not feel he will end it.

over 13 years ago

Jody Fox (jodylf)

MC with all that evidence you know its over,its just a matter of letting go and admitting to yourself that it is….I wish u all the best.Angels hugs and blessings

over 13 years ago

M C M (want2bloved)

Thanks Craig & Jody. I’m so confused as what to do. I’m thinking of just “seperating” without affecting the kids i.e. sharing the same house, but not the same room, but I’m not sure if it wil work that way?? What I honestly/desperately need to know is if he loves me? & will he ever change his habit i.e. will he end up doing it again? I’m feeling really down right now but need to know so I can get on with my life:-(

over 13 years ago