Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

When things collapse in your life, it is a time to let go of the old world of thinking, believing, and behaving. It is a break down of relationships, jobs, and a transformation is about to happen in your life.

If you look at three generations of your family you can trace specific behaviors, beliefs, and addictions. You get to decide whether you want to continue on this path, or set a new path for you and your children.

It can continue down the line, or you can be a path cutter, and end all the abuse, addiction, and behaviors from being passed down generation to come.

While friends and family may get ruffled feathers,what is happening is feelings and emotions may be amplified, and you may feel like you’re losing everything, people disagree, or don’t approve. Most of the time this is because they’re not ready to deal with their issues, and you are surfacing what they need to be healed and what they need to be working on in themselves. When you heal, you start healing other people whether they like it or not, which cause friction.

Basically you’re triggering their issues by healing yourself. Most likely they don’t want to change, or face the fact they have done harm, or caused harm. By staying in their chaos and drama, you can never grow or evolve. You can never become your best self by staying in one place.

What comes with change, is growth, evolving, and becoming more of your trueself. While you may feel you need to save someone, fix them, or change them, you can never do this for them.

By staying in the same place around addiction and abuse you hold them back from taking 100% responsibility for their lives. You prevent yourself from taking 100% responsible for your life. The best thing you can do is take care of your own health mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. By doing this you pave the way to help others get out of the pain and suffering. You help them take control of their own lives and succeed, because you have chosen to do the same.

You can wait a life time for some to change, while others may never change, and some will follow your footsteps because they want to better themselves.

We have a tendency to follow the herd like cattle or sheep. We rarely make our own path. We wonder why we can’t succeed, or move forward into a better life. If you hold on and resist changes in your life, get stuck, and stagnate, you can never become more, or move forward into becoming the best you.

Be the change you want to see. Even if it is tough, and you grow tired in moments of change. Let go of the fears, and go with the flow of change. Instead of resisting change as it comes, move with change. You don’t need to struggle. Go with the ebb and flow of life. Let go when it’s time to let go. Stay when it’s time to stay. Move when it’s time to move.

Learn to surf on the waves, whether they are high tides or low tides, learn to stay neutral in the storms, learn to surf through the eye of he hurricane with calmness and grace. Be love and peace.

over 10 years ago