Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

As a goalie of your mind, you are going to learn how to protect yourself from getting negative beliefs, opinions, and criticism from entering your mind. Your going to learn to block the negativity, and shoot it back at them where it came from. It came out of their mind, mouth, and thoughts, it belongs to them, they are the creator of it. It doesn’t belong to you, nor about you.

A goalie doesn’t say anything. He doesn’t have to do anything, but shoot it back. You don’t have to do anything, but stop the puck from effecting your mind, dumping the negative emotions and feelings, knowing it’s not about you.

It’s about what they’re battling inside of their own head, and their own pain and suffering. Which is another move you have to make in your life. Learning to heal yourself, and becoming a whole and complete person without the co-dependency, the controlling, the manipulations, or being deceitful, or deceptive.

You learn to shoot from the hip, be honest, and respect yourself enough to never hesitate, or be indecisive with your thoughts, feelings, choices or allow emotions to control your beliefs about who you are and what you’re about, every time you hear a negative message. Ask yourself who you are? Are you who they say? Most likely you know better.

Learn to move across the ice with grace under pressure. It doesn’t matter how much stress they try to throw at you, or how much criticism, how much they want to tear your weak spots down, you just have to be tough enough in your mind, to not let them through, and break your will and spirit inside.

Moving every day you learn to practice, practice, practice every day until you’ve mastered moving in the right direction, the right way, with love, compassion, passion, and learning to be diplomatic.

Don’t expect to be able to be diplomatic with everyone, because of course people are biased, opinionated, have to be right and prove you wrong. Don’t argue with them, let them win. Never explain to people why you do the things you do. It won’t matter them to them anyway, and most of the time you won’t change their minds or convince them. Let them go and let them be. Don’t worry about what they’re doing, it matters what you are doing, and where you want to be.

There ego is in the way. Most of them move with the opinion of they are winners and you have to be a loser. It’s what our society is based on. Winning and losing. Fortunately you can lose and be the better winner, because you have no need to have hatred in your heart, anger, resentment, bitterness, or harm others to win.

You can lose everything in your life, but still come out the winner, because you have nothing to prove anyway to the world. While everyone thinks they make the perfect moves, fortunately they don’t move the right way in all areas of their life unless they’ve intended to master every area of their life, and still will have moments where others will not get it, and push them to the edge.

over 10 years ago