Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

There are many obstacles in life, there are negative influences on our lives. Many times people are lost in pain and suffering. Hurting people hurt people. If you’re in the same mindset, there is a war of getting revenge, keeping a record of wrongs, and push and pull.

Fortunately, the only thing we’re doing is harming ourselves by staying in relationships that are focused on pain and suffering.

Love is the goal. Unconditional love rises above the lower realms of relationships where drugs, alcohol, sex, and money are the main focus of the relationship. This is all based out of fear, controlling, and manipulating others for one’s personal gain.

Unconditional love is stepping higher into a new dimensional where you have to learn to control and regulate emotions, feelings, and thoughts.

Unconditional love is something you have to focus on every minute and hour of the day. Practice. Practice. Practice. In every word, action, and deed.

Authoritarian parents, friends, and lovers are the most difficult with there theory of “tough love” it isn’t love. It is control, manipulation, and and punishment.

Authoritative parents, friends, and lovers are those that empower you, lift you up higher, and teach you to be mentally strong, regulate your emotions, breathe, and relax.

No your personality type and the weaknesses and strengths. Make your weaknesses into to strengths.

Although the world would like you to believe things happen in thirty days, sixty, or ninety days, nothing happens over night.

There are no short-cuts. Long term gains mean you practice every day with positive quotes, positive affirmations, meditation, music, and learn from music, reading, and teaching yourself the coping skills you need.

Take one day at a time. One hour at a time. Accomplish five tasks a day that you want to change about your life. Have short term goals, monthly goals, and yearly goals.

There’s a lot of things you can learn and apply to your life in 6 months to a year. If you’re not taking the right actions and making the right choices, you end up doing the same thing over and over again year after year.

Sometimes you have to try new things and do something different and inconvenience yourself, push yourself to do something you’re not comfortable doing and move through the pain and suffering.

Pain isn’t always bad. Pain is something we must experience to reach beyond where we’re at today. At one point when you learn the appropriate skills it is less painful and things don’t effect you. You learn to be neutral and objective.

You have to make yourself. If you’re not applying yourself, it’s hard for things to change and for you to get past your fears.